eHarmony Review

  • Custom dashboard with an overall personalized user experience

eHarmony Review

eHarmony is an online dating platform established back in 2007. It claims to be responsible for more than 10,000 marriages, along with thousands of babies and relationships during this period. It has an advanced matching system that uses a personality survey and profile information to compatible members with the highest chances of resulting in a successful pairing.

Key Features

  • Custom dashboard with an overall personalized user experience
  • Advanced matching system to match you with the most compatible members
  • Ability to tell the platform who you wish to be matched with
  • New batch of handpicked matches presented daily
  • Profiles highlight personality traits instead of physical features
  • Guided communication allows users to know fellow users more in-depth before you start one-on-one messaging

Signing Up

It is easy to sign up since you are guided through the process by questions. Once you answer basic questions about you age, children, marital status, location, and sexual preference, you then run through the personality survey questions asking to rate how well words (such as stable, affectionate, clever) describe you.

You will then have to nominate 4 words from a list that your best friends would use when describing you such as funny, dependable, good listener, etc. After this you have to answer questions about how you lead your life such as seeking adventure, doing things to a plan, how skilled you are when it comes to creating romance in your relationships.

The questions might be many when signing up, but eHarmony will keep you updated with your progress. The answers you provide to the questions will be used for determining your personality traits and help match you to other users who share similar traits that would likely lead to a successful match.

Establishing Contact

eHarmony provides several communication options for both free and paid members. Initially any user may send a fellow user that they have matched with a Smile for letting the person know that they have read their profile and liked what they see.

Guided Communication is what all users can contact other users. The approach provides pre-populated questions that can be sent to matches to get to know them better. After 3 rounds of back and forth Guided Communication with your match on questions that get deeper as they go, you can decide to move communication to email and send free text messages to your match.

Paid members can use SecureCall that allows members to chat with matches via the phone without first revealing their phone number for the purpose of security and privacy.

Profile Quality

The profiles on eHarmony are incredibly detailed and contain great information that you can start getting to know your matches. You will find information about their likes and dislikes, how they spend their leisure time, what they believe to be their best life skills, etc. All this information is designed to help start meaningful conversations with matches to make communication better.


eHarmony has 2 mobile apps available on both iOS and Android. Unlike most other dating platforms, eHarmony separates its apps with the main app being used for heterosexual matches and Compatible Partners used for homosexual matches.

The app has much of the functionality of the desktop website, which includes signing up, setting up your profile, reviewing your matches and contacting them, adjusting the match settings, and managing your account too.


eHarmony is an incredibly easy website to navigate and the communication features work incredibly well. It is quite easy to establish contact with fellow users and update your profile.

Free Services

  • Send a smile
  • Send and receive emails
  • Viewing your matches’ profiles
  • Access to the Book of You

Fee-Based Services

  • SecureCall: Talking on the phone securely
  • Know who has viewed your profile
  • See photos of your matches

Payment Options

  • PayPal
  • Credit Card

The paid memberships renew automatically every month unless cancelled, but you can easily manage this via the Account Settings page. If you paid for the membership using an iOS device you will have to use Apple iTunes to cancel it.

Special Features

Book of You

The Book of You is an analysis of your personality that's received once you complete the Relationship Questionnaire. It provides you with an in-depth understanding of yourself, which you can use as a secret weapon when dating. If you understand your personality traits and the traits that are compatible with yours can help you determine who is the best match for you and how you can build a successful relationship with them.


It is a unique feature that you probably won't find on other dating platforms. eHarmony seems to care deeply about the security and safety of its online users. Paid members can access the SecureCall function that lets members set up calls with matches without revealing personal contact information at that stage.

The Good

  • It is a great dating platform for people looking for serious relationship that may lead to marriage.
  • It uses a revolutionary matching model based on 29 key dimensions that are critical to fulfillment and happiness in marriage.
  • It saves you the stress and time of having to browse through hundreds of profiles before finding a match. If you use the platform, you won't engage in endless searching.

The Bad

  • It is more expensive to use than other dating platforms
  • It does not let you search on your own. It is only possible to interact with people presented to you by eHarmony, which can be limiting for some users.
  • If you just have a free account, is not possible to communicate with other single members with a paid subscription.


eHarmony is one of the most thorough online dating platforms. It is also incredibly popular, which means that you will never lack singles to be matched with. If you are looking for a serious relationship, eHarmony is the perfect platform for you. However, keep in mind that using it in its totality require a subscription.